Saturday, December 13, 2008

for you


for so long we've been together

i've realized how much you mean to me

and can't quit to the promised we've shared

lost soul in the middle of nowhere

catching up the special moments

lingering to the shared promises

as long as we live until to the last breathe

i will love you 'till the end

despite of the hang ups i've encountered

it's just you and me matters most

Sunday, December 7, 2008

Alone


It really amazed me when I'm alone in the room

Words imploring and exploring in my thoughts

Weekend nights made me vanished in vain

As a loophole whining in my head

Rolling and tossing in the bed

Helpless thoughts that make me sad

A love that was kept and nurture for a long time

Desire to be with you made me sick

Coldness of whimpering thoughts

Being alone made me shivers

For so doomed in the banquet

Loneliness stuck me in the dark room

A Short Trip

picture taken as i walk going to home


On my way home, the sky is clear and cloudy and soothes to my senses the cool breeze. My head is kinda running low and bumped into cyclones as I've heard my phone rung and my friend called me just to greet me.


I've realized something that every individual has a unique characteristics. Friends you have known for years and have just met along the way imposed their different nature. Then suddenly, I've remembered my father says to me when I was a kid, "Always be good to everyone and be a good listener. You will meet different persona's along the way and will tangle your mind as you meet them. It's very hard to please other people. Just be simple and rekindle with them. " That's one of the reason why I became silent, shy type individual. A fast learner and a very keen observant in handling some scenario specially in dealing with other people.

Friday, December 5, 2008

Child Care

As a mom, taking good care of my son is one of the challenges to face... Quite hard for the first time mom's... Thanks for the tips and advices of my Inay's and beloved relatives regarding child care.. They taught me the basic things to do and how to handle things that might sometimes gave us a headaches and tantrums...

Here are some child care tips that I've learned from my folks and from my basic reading through the net....

1. Give your baby a baby massage. It is believed that regular massage help preemies to gain weight; reduce colic in infants and strengthen immune systems of babies. Besides all these benefits, it a pleasure for moms to caress the delicate, soft and tender skin of their newborns and cuddle them.


2. Insuring the car seat safety of young children save children from severe injury or even death during an accident or sudden jerk.

3. A colicky baby cries and whimpers all the time and we are often at their wit's end on how to soothe their child. Colic babies cause severe sleep deprivation, frustration and exhaustion in parents as they worry constantly try to quiet the infant. Colic crying consists of frequent and prolonged outbursts. According to experts, the most common reason for colic is abdominal pain in babies and the two most common reasons that cause tummy ache in infants.

4. Carrying the growing babies might be hard for us. Toddlers, who learn to walk well, often insist on being held and carried by parents. Parents have to understand that they are not just being lazy but there are other factors that prompt them to cry for being carried by adults:
a. like the view they are able to get when their heads are at the same height at ours.
b. all children are conditioned to feel comfort from being held.
c. tend to be more at alert or afraid of new places or strangers and they feel safer and more secure in your strong arms.
d. feel that are paid no attention, if they are at your level and close to your ears, where they can easily talk to you and you will easily listen to whatever they say.

Those were samples tips I've learned and it helps a lot...